How to get your ex to call you?
You have tried calling your ex over and over again, but all you hear is a voice mail. He/she doesn’t even bother to reply you. So, is there any magical way to make your ex return your call? How to get your ex to call you soon?
Well, don’t ever think it is difficult. Once you know exactly what to do and what to say, it will be as easy as pie. Using this trick, your ex can’t help but calls you back.
Without further ado, let’s go into the details. We are going to find the answer to this question, “How can I get my ex to return my phone call, text, or IM?”
But first, before finding out what you should do and what you should say, it is equally, if not, more important to know what you should not do and what you should not say. Ultimately, you do not want to risk pushing your ex further away.
So, what are the things that you should not do and say? Well, we can conveniently group them into 2 categories.
The Plead
“John, please call me back. Please return my call. I have already called you many times. I really want to talk to you.”
The Emergency
“Jenny, I need you to call me back as soon as possible. It is an emergency. Do call back as soon as you see this message.”
So, can you see what is wrong with the above 2 approaches? Well, I believe you can. So, let’s not ramble on and on.
Now, we shall look into what really works. And it can work really really well. First, we need to know a bit about human psychology. The fact is,
1) People are curious by nature.
2) People care more about their self interest than anything else.
So, we are going to use this to our advantage. The idea here is to say something that combines the power of self interest and curiosity. With these 2 ingredients, it won’t be difficult to get your ex to call you.
Let’s look at an example of what you can say.
In a friendly tone:
“Hi John. This is Jenny. I just want to tell you how much I appreciate you for what you have done for me. Call me so that I can thank you in person.”
Perfect combination of self interest and curiosity.
John will be compelled to call Jenny back. Here is probably what John will be thinking, “What have I done for her? Why is she appreciating me?”
Regardless, John will feel good because he is getting a positive message.
But, before you implement the technique above, it is very important to have the correct “Set Up”. You need to figure out what your ex did that you appreciate. It doesn’t need to be a big thing but it must be plausible. Don’t make things up.
Most importantly, you need to have an underlying strategy. Without a sound strategy, it can bring you more harm than good if your ex does call back but you handle it wrongly.
Remember, what you do, before, during and after your ex call is even more important than getting your ex return your call.
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